Even if you’re dealing with internalized shame, perfectionism, and disconnection (like so many of us) — FATALE is here to help you
be embodied, resilient, and joyful fierce lovers as we create stuff that’s good for us — personally and collectively.
We can use personal succulence to jet fuel our loving actions and rise together in collective succulence.
Let’s be fatale to all that’s standing in the way of sexual thriving, love, and justice…together.
feels saddled by internalized shame and oppressive beliefs.
has desires for specific sexual skills and states of being but struggling to get there.
struggles with numbness, shut down, and disconnection to sensuality and/or during solo and/or partner sex.
struggles with a sense of confidence and worthiness in entrepreneurship and wealth-building.
struggles to break from a cycle of overwork and burnout.
needs to build emotional resilience to align with your integrity and/or hold the world as is.
In this 16-week program, we’ll begin with honing in on your key desires and the ultimate goal for your coaching journey.
In the first half of the journey, we’ll compassionately uncover the social and cultural narratives and conditionings standing in your way. Using multiple tools, you’ll learn to expand your capacity to regulate your nervous system, and thus nourish the ecosystems of thriving within you.
In the next half, we’ll gradually introduce the new narratives and patterns that you desire. We’ll use our weekly sessions, daily practices and logging to inquire, support, observe, and tweak the process to ease you into regenerating a shift in new ways of thriving and loving.
We’ll weave in a Rest and Grace week every two weeks. This way we’ll be moving at a thoughtful and steady pace for integration while centering rest, joy and A WHOLE LOT OF pleasure.
In the end, we’ll wrap up with bespoke recommendations and resources from me plus a joyful celebration.
(Note: Post-program extra sessions are also available for continuing clients.)
Interactive weekly online sessions (2 hours/session)
Daily at-home practices (30 minutes/day, 5 days/week)
Daily online logging (3-5 minutes, 5 days/week)
Scheduled rest weeks for integration (5 weeks)
Sensual self-pleasure and masturbation
Inward actions and outward actions (solo and/or partnered)
Discussion and reflective prompts
Visualization and role play
Guided meditation, breath, sound, and movements
Bespoke resource materials, and more
A lifestyle and pre-program preparation guide (PDF)
A minimum of 10 x (2-hour) Weekly Sessions via Zoom video
Weekly PDF guides for your daily at-home practices
5 x Rest & Grace Week
1 x (2-hour) Wrap Up Session
Custom Notion page for daily documentation and accountability logging, password-protected and accessible 24/7
2 days/week between-session coach support in your Notion log
Bespoke additional multi-media resources (links to books, videos, audios, and more)
I honor the brutally-wondrous, non-linear, nuanced, and contextual nature of the human experience. So, while I’m certified in the VITA Method, I bring in decades of relevant personal study and experiences to deliver a bespoke coaching experience to each client.
As your knowledgeable coach, relentless cheerleader, compassionate guide, and accountability partner, I’ll ask for your consent, outline boundaries, guide you in regulating your nervous system, tell you what you need to hear, and celebrate all of you.
I lead with an intersectional feminist lens to helps us identify the socialization at play to situate your personal challenges, responsibility and actualization within a liberatory collective vision.
This program might likely stretch you. It can be emotionally, mentally and physically revealing and laborious. Using a combination of tools, I’ll always meet you where you are — prioritizing your safety, wellbeing, and success.
I come in with a commitment to trust, honesty, compassion, pleasure, and accountability. When you do the same, we’re GOLD. Let’s go!
2 program rounds per year.
Spot(s) available: 9 clients per round (max)
16-week spacious program: 1 rest week every 2 active weeks.
PayPal or Wise Online Money Transfer (USD)
1). Book your desired date/time slot.
2). Donate what-you-can to any of these non-profits, and save your receipt. 100% of donation goes to the organization.
Indonesia: KOPERNIK (improve tools for women weavers)
India: GiveIndia (protect rural communities from COVID-19)
US: The Bail Project (reduce incarceration of Black women)
3). Check your inbox for an email requesting confirmation of your booking. Reply with your donation receipt.
That’s it. Your booking is valid, and our date is on. Are you in?
You can read more about what happens in a Discovery Session, what happens if you get aroused or orgasm during session, client testimonials, payment options, and more in the FAQ. Still got questions? Contact me.
Reconnecting with sensuality and sexuality to unwind numbness and avoidance during sexual activity.
Unwinding resistance to being able to receive in sexual interaction and let go into wild abandon.
Reclaiming an embodied sense of safety and power to say no (and YES!) related to dating and sexual activity.
Delaying climax to experience diverse orgasmic sensations.
Unwinding resistance to compassionate communication in relationship, and express desires about sexual activity.
Reclaiming productivity and wealth building with pleasure
Boosting emotional resilience in relationships and activism.
Understanding and unwinding internalized shame and oppressive beliefs around sexuality, integrity and personal power.